Dr. Valliyatte

Dr.Tail Vet

It sounds like your Goldendoodle is experiencing some separation anxiety and possibly some frustration or distress when the female dog leaves. This behavior is quite common, especially in dogs that are closely bonded with other dogs or their human family members. Here are a few steps you can take to help manage this behavior:

First, it's important to create a safe space for your dog. Ensure he has a comfortable and secure area where he feels safe. This could be a crate, a specific room, or a cozy corner with his favorite toys and bedding.

Next, consider using desensitization and counter-conditioning techniques. Gradually get your dog used to being alone by starting with short periods and slowly increasing the time. Pair these periods with positive experiences, like giving him a special treat or toy that he only gets when he's alone.

Make sure your dog is getting plenty of physical exercise and mental stimulation. A tired dog is less likely to be anxious and destructive. Interactive toys, puzzle feeders, and regular playtime can help keep his mind occupied.

Training commands can also be very helpful. Teach your dog commands like "stay" and "quiet." Reward him for calm behavior and practice these commands regularly.

You might also want to consider using calming aids such as pheromone diffusers, calming collars, or natural supplements designed to reduce anxiety in dogs.

Maintaining a consistent routine for feeding, walks, and playtime can also help. Predictability can reduce anxiety.

Since this behavior has been ongoing for a week and is not severe, monitoring his progress with these strategies should help. If the behavior persists or worsens, it might be beneficial to consult with a professional dog trainer or a veterinarian who can provide more tailored advice and possibly explore other underlying causes.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to ask. Thank you.